Hi:
You may have recently heard on NPR of the Online Dating Coach who charges $2,000 to $3,000 to coach people to be successful with online dating sites.
Im not that guy.
But, I did spend almost ten years running an online dating site which I created. Many thousands of people met and there were hundreds of marriages. I was excited when we heard of our first site baby being born. By the time I left the company, there were plenty of people who had met on the site, got married, had kids, divorced, met someone else on the site, married again and had more kids! It was a pretty mature operation by then.
So, I think I have a little experience with what works and doesnt with online dating.
Now, Im ready to impart my expertise to you. I wont be charging $3,000, or even $2,000. I can if you want, but Ive been reading the news lately. I have a couple of different programs that start at zero and go up from there, to one or two zeros depending on what you need.
I only accept people that I can really help. If youre interested, fill out the form at the left and I will send you a confidential questionnaire. Fill that out and get it back to me. If I think I can help you, then well talk. If not, the questionnaire goes in the shredder. I learned a little about confidentiality as well during my dating site days.
My aim is to help you get what you want. I start with the basics, and Ill give that to you for free. Then we work into your specific situation. If this is of interest, I look forward to hearing from you.
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You may have recently heard on NPR of the Online Dating Coach who charges $2,000 to $3,000 to coach people to be successful with online dating sites.
Im not that guy.
But, I did spend almost ten years running an online dating site which I created. Many thousands of people met and there were hundreds of marriages. I was excited when we heard of our first site baby being born. By the time I left the company, there were plenty of people who had met on the site, got married, had kids, divorced, met someone else on the site, married again and had more kids! It was a pretty mature operation by then.
So, I think I have a little experience with what works and doesnt with online dating.
Now, Im ready to impart my expertise to you. I wont be charging $3,000, or even $2,000. I can if you want, but Ive been reading the news lately. I have a couple of different programs that start at zero and go up from there, to one or two zeros depending on what you need.
I only accept people that I can really help. If youre interested, fill out the form at the left and I will send you a confidential questionnaire. Fill that out and get it back to me. If I think I can help you, then well talk. If not, the questionnaire goes in the shredder. I learned a little about confidentiality as well during my dating site days.
My aim is to help you get what you want. I start with the basics, and Ill give that to you for free. Then we work into your specific situation. If this is of interest, I look forward to hearing from you.
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Here is the thing about the Cube Method: in order to use a pick-up line that contrived, you have to be the Cube Man the entire time.
So you can sell her the Cube Method or the “pick a number between one and ten” method or the ring finger method – or whatever bullshit it is – but the problem arises when you exchange phone numbers with her and have to take the next step.
From then on, she’s expecting Ring Finger Man and Cube Man to take her on a date, and then you show up!
Sure, women are looking for a bad boy. So I tell every good guy out there that if they want to learn how to be the bad boy, they have to learn how to kiss, learn foreplay, learn how to touch her, and when you have sex with her, you fuck her better than anybody else ever has or will.
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So you can sell her the Cube Method or the “pick a number between one and ten” method or the ring finger method – or whatever bullshit it is – but the problem arises when you exchange phone numbers with her and have to take the next step.
From then on, she’s expecting Ring Finger Man and Cube Man to take her on a date, and then you show up!
Sure, women are looking for a bad boy. So I tell every good guy out there that if they want to learn how to be the bad boy, they have to learn how to kiss, learn foreplay, learn how to touch her, and when you have sex with her, you fuck her better than anybody else ever has or will.
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Hi. Much of what my focus for this blog vs. my website is to share a TON of ideas about WHAT to do to MEET more people, especially singles, so you can....
Get More Dates
And I have to say, I am a big proponent of on Date0 when single men and single women who have met via Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review that we meet for drinks and apps, namely drinks and appetizers. However, this is merely that, a guideline, a strong suggestion. The other thing is for women who want to be the YIN energy in the romantic sex relationship, that we FOLLOW THE MANs LEAD for the date. So, I am inculcating for, let HIM choose and suggest WHERE to GO and WHAT to DO, especially for the first few dates.
Then, like with dancing West Coast Swing (The official Dance of the State of California!), once you have established your dancing rapport as a couple, every once in awhile as part of what is FUN and FLIRTATIOUS.... you SWITCH and exchange the lead. After you have been on several dates, the lady can express and ask for more what SHE might be interested in doing on the date. That is switching the lead. However, then GIVE IT BACK to him with that marvelous, treat him like The Respected Man phrase, ...what do you think? (insert feminine batting of eyelashes)
Pause
Wait
LISTEN for his response
So, with my date last night which WAS a Date0, we had spoken a few times on the phone, had flirted extensively (no surprise there since I was one of the people on the phone....), he invited me out for dinner and a movie. Which meant ACTUALLY more pressure. I actually would have FELT better if we had just met for drinks, had surging chemistry, and then arranged for another date for the dinner and movie thing. But I was OK with his agenda (nothing morally wrong with it). So I did the feminine thing of RECEIVE RECEIVE RECEIVE and thanked him.
He also HAD ALREADY been doing his advance field recon, like the scouts, and knew a few different few types which I enjoy. (Thai, Indian, Chinese) Asked me which of those I would enjoy. I lobbed the lead then back to him after stating (gasp) my opinion and LET HIM LEAD with selecting WHICH restaurant to go to.
Men ENJOY that SMALL research challenge. Some women will lob them some giant challenge, which indeed some men enjoy, however, it can really be OBNOXIOUS. So, I generally suggest refraining from presenting TOO LARGE a challenge to a man until AFTER he has met you and knows he WANTS to pursue you.
Bless his masculine heart which wants to PLEASE the woman he is with, hed already been ASKING ME about
what kind of food I enjoyed eating
what sort of movies I enjoyed
In truth, I enjoy a variety and expressed that and only voiced really one kind of movie I DONT enjoy - horror film slashers. I vaguely recall I had admired the new Jame Bond film, and he did suggest that. However, if hed invited me to something else, I would have GLADLY gone.
Now we are contemplating ANOTHER activity which is about sharing life STUFF.
I actually LOVE hiking.
Hed already, yup, again, been gathering field recon about this. April, what do you enjoy doing? in your free time? outside of work?
yeah, well, blogging my brains out apparently! lol!
However, when I get OUT of the house, I LOVE to go hiking, bicycling, movies, and dancing.
All of which make for GOOD STORIES for conversations.
And ACTIVITIES for other dates.
So, were looking at Hiking for tomorrow.
Now, bless his heart, he is enjoying the masculine research and recon: WHERE TO GO hiking!?
Im reminded of some of the very very good material from the dating classic, The Rules.
Its in there somewhere. Essentially the authors pointed out, dont ROB the man of the masculine JOY of doing his recon and pursuit behavior. John Gray talks about this as well. A masculine YANG man is wanting to PLEASE his lady. His efforts are like his war spoils. The KILL from the hunt. Our 21st century society offers men so FEW opps to preset his lady fair with his spoils for her to admire.
For Gods sake, let him PRESENT you with a few displays of his masculine prowess outside of the bedroom and ADMIRE and EXTOL it!
Its like the animals who present their kill as an offering to their mate.
Here honey, this wanga beast, its FER you!Oooo, Reginald, its LOVELY! You are so strong, valiant, diligent, and discerning to have brought that to me.
And here are two magic words which are The Secret to creating masculine love for his woman, a piece of The Glue which will hold your romantic relationship together, a Best Practice you can PRACTICE DAILY with every man you meet about SOMETHING he does for you....
Thank You.
Gaze upon him admiringly (like you just squeezed his biceps or shoulders, nice arent they?).
Smile softly.
Thank You.
You are now the feminine balm to his masculine soul.
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Get More Dates
And I have to say, I am a big proponent of on Date0 when single men and single women who have met via Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Personals Sites Review that we meet for drinks and apps, namely drinks and appetizers. However, this is merely that, a guideline, a strong suggestion. The other thing is for women who want to be the YIN energy in the romantic sex relationship, that we FOLLOW THE MANs LEAD for the date. So, I am inculcating for, let HIM choose and suggest WHERE to GO and WHAT to DO, especially for the first few dates.
Then, like with dancing West Coast Swing (The official Dance of the State of California!), once you have established your dancing rapport as a couple, every once in awhile as part of what is FUN and FLIRTATIOUS.... you SWITCH and exchange the lead. After you have been on several dates, the lady can express and ask for more what SHE might be interested in doing on the date. That is switching the lead. However, then GIVE IT BACK to him with that marvelous, treat him like The Respected Man phrase, ...what do you think? (insert feminine batting of eyelashes)
Pause
Wait
LISTEN for his response
So, with my date last night which WAS a Date0, we had spoken a few times on the phone, had flirted extensively (no surprise there since I was one of the people on the phone....), he invited me out for dinner and a movie. Which meant ACTUALLY more pressure. I actually would have FELT better if we had just met for drinks, had surging chemistry, and then arranged for another date for the dinner and movie thing. But I was OK with his agenda (nothing morally wrong with it). So I did the feminine thing of RECEIVE RECEIVE RECEIVE and thanked him.
He also HAD ALREADY been doing his advance field recon, like the scouts, and knew a few different few types which I enjoy. (Thai, Indian, Chinese) Asked me which of those I would enjoy. I lobbed the lead then back to him after stating (gasp) my opinion and LET HIM LEAD with selecting WHICH restaurant to go to.
Men ENJOY that SMALL research challenge. Some women will lob them some giant challenge, which indeed some men enjoy, however, it can really be OBNOXIOUS. So, I generally suggest refraining from presenting TOO LARGE a challenge to a man until AFTER he has met you and knows he WANTS to pursue you.
Bless his masculine heart which wants to PLEASE the woman he is with, hed already been ASKING ME about
what kind of food I enjoyed eating
what sort of movies I enjoyed
In truth, I enjoy a variety and expressed that and only voiced really one kind of movie I DONT enjoy - horror film slashers. I vaguely recall I had admired the new Jame Bond film, and he did suggest that. However, if hed invited me to something else, I would have GLADLY gone.
Now we are contemplating ANOTHER activity which is about sharing life STUFF.
I actually LOVE hiking.
Hed already, yup, again, been gathering field recon about this. April, what do you enjoy doing? in your free time? outside of work?
yeah, well, blogging my brains out apparently! lol!
However, when I get OUT of the house, I LOVE to go hiking, bicycling, movies, and dancing.
All of which make for GOOD STORIES for conversations.
And ACTIVITIES for other dates.
So, were looking at Hiking for tomorrow.
Now, bless his heart, he is enjoying the masculine research and recon: WHERE TO GO hiking!?
Im reminded of some of the very very good material from the dating classic, The Rules.
Its in there somewhere. Essentially the authors pointed out, dont ROB the man of the masculine JOY of doing his recon and pursuit behavior. John Gray talks about this as well. A masculine YANG man is wanting to PLEASE his lady. His efforts are like his war spoils. The KILL from the hunt. Our 21st century society offers men so FEW opps to preset his lady fair with his spoils for her to admire.
For Gods sake, let him PRESENT you with a few displays of his masculine prowess outside of the bedroom and ADMIRE and EXTOL it!
Its like the animals who present their kill as an offering to their mate.
Here honey, this wanga beast, its FER you!Oooo, Reginald, its LOVELY! You are so strong, valiant, diligent, and discerning to have brought that to me.
And here are two magic words which are The Secret to creating masculine love for his woman, a piece of The Glue which will hold your romantic relationship together, a Best Practice you can PRACTICE DAILY with every man you meet about SOMETHING he does for you....
Thank You.
Gaze upon him admiringly (like you just squeezed his biceps or shoulders, nice arent they?).
Smile softly.
Thank You.
You are now the feminine balm to his masculine soul.
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